corsets

They’ve been worn by women for thousands of years. Actually, the oldest corset dates back to ancient Minoans around 2000 BC. Heavy bulky garments worn by women from the middle ages of Europe comes to mind when most people think of corsets. Corsets from that time period were not only heavy, but they were also restrictive and very uncomfortable to wear. Thank goodness recent fabric technology has improved,  corsets are now not only more comfortable but are being worn by many as outwear.

Most women don’t own or have never worn a corset. However if you’re looking for a fashion garment that accentuates your curves and bust line, a corset can be your best friend, so lets take a closer look at what a corset is.

 

A corset is garment that covers your lower torso from bust line to waist. The sides have curved shaped ribbing that gives your body the classic hourglass shape. These ribs are usually made a thin lightweight metal or hard plastic. While these ribs do push your body into certain shapes, they aren’t “trainer” corsets which pose health hazards to your internal organs. To wear a corset first loosen the strings which are located on the back of the garment. There is usually a zipper in the front of the corset, unzip it and wrap the garment around your torso. Align it so the strings are in the back and close the zipper. Now grab the strings and gently but firmly pull to tighten. Pull the strings until the corset is snug and firm. Do not pull the strings so tight that you can’t move or breathe comfortably. The first thing that you’ll notice is your bust line is now enhanced and you will probably be showing more cleavage than you are used to. While this is normal it does take some getting used to. Many women with a large bust find a corset is more comfortable to wear, as it gives them more support than a standard bra.

Most corsets fall into the category of intimate apparel. They come in a wide variety of fabrics such as satin, silk, or lace and an array of colors. You can find something that allows you to be as modest or daring as you desire. If your corset comes with a garter belt and stockings be sure to put on the stockings before the corset, it’s just easier. Corsets are also moving out of the bedroom and being worn as outwear. There corsets are very similar to traditional corsets but available in decorative and luxurious fabrics. They may not be appropriate for a Monday morning office staff meeting but are great for an informal party or night at a club. If you’ve never worn a corset and would like to try one start with an outwear corset first, they are generally easier and more comfortable to wear.

 

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Heat Up Your Evening With A Couples Night In!

 

Group Of Friends Enjoying Drinks Party At Home
Couples or Coed Romance Parties are Always FUN!

It’s getting warmer out and everyone will be coming out of hibernation and looking to enjoy the weather. With warm weather comes LADIES NIGHT!!!

Why not get your girls together and have a theme party? What type of theme? Well, if you have an imagination, it will come!

There’s always the traditional sex toy party with toys, lotions, potions and games, but why not make it even more enjoyable and add a twist? Most toy parties only include women, what about adding MEN to the mix? This type of party of course is not for the faint of heart, but sometimes men have the same concerns and could learn a thing or two about the products and how to use them. Let’s not mention the obvious, men, toys and sex can equal FUN!  Many ladies enjoy bringing their other half to sample new items and get new ideas about what to take home to steam up the bedroom. Think about it, sex toys are not just for women anymore.

Many couples are bored with their current sex lives and sometimes want to want to relive their sexual past. This is especially true if the sex has become routine. Routine sex sucks the fun out of what should be one of the most enjoyable activities. The fun and spontaneity is gone, making the sex boring and frustrating. Once sex becomes a task, it’s time to spice up the bedroom and beyond. Luckily a sex toy, theme, romance or seduction patty is available to save the day and your sex life!

Before introducing your other half to a co ed sex toy party,  it’s important that you follow certain guidelines, so that you can gain the utmost pleasure and fun from the experience. Maybe you should attend some parties by yourself at first. You also should know your hostess. If you or your man is uncomfortable discussing sex or being somewhat open about your sexual needs and wants in a group, you may want to go over what you’re looking for and your expectations to make sure the guests and person planning the party fits your lifestyle. As mentioned earlier, some men are intimidated by adult products and the thought of a vibrator or handcuffs may cause him to withdraw.

Here’s where you become your man’s teacher. Show him how the toys can be used as an addition to your sex play, and clarify that you are not looking to replace or compare the toys to the real thing. Make it clear that you love what he’s working with and how the toys can add more heat to a spicy sexual adventure.

Begin with some lotions to suck and lick off his body, and of course, don’t forget to make sure you have some for him to add when exploring yours. You might want to add a bullet or vibrator to the mix. These can be used both inside and outside of the vagina, outside of the lips and under the chin when indulging him in oral, or if you’re a little more adventurous, anally. Another item men love and that is made specifically for him, is a cock ring. Find one with different speeds that he can use both with and with out you. Men usually are pleasantly surprised that many of the adult toy items are not only for the woman, but just for him.

Whatever you decide to purchase as a couple, share ideas of how to use the toys and other items. Make sure both of you are extremely comfortable with whatever you purchase, because the intent is to get lots of use out of everything you buy.

Whatever you decide go purchase, don’t forget the lubricants, condoms and toy cleaners. You want to get your money’s worth and be able to have the time of your lives, while playing safely. Intome